Close scrutiny will show that most ‘crisis situations’ are opportunities to either advance, or stay where you are. -Maxwell Maltz
Take action! An inch of movement will bring you closer to your goals than a mile of intention. -Dr. Steve Maraboli
There’s a crazy intersection in the city near where I live called Kelley Square. There is traffic coming and going from all directions, with no traffic light or signs whatsoever. This area is known for its absolute chaos; there is even a Facebook page called I survived Kelley Square.
The first time I drove through this intersection, I was sure I just hadn’t seen the traffic signs. Anxiety set in as I tried to stay focused on what was in front of me while simultaneously noticing the traffic at my rear and all around me, and keeping my eyes peeled for that elusive yield sign.
The second time I drove through, a week or so later, I felt my heart beating quickly as I approached the intersection. I held out hope that there actually were traffic rules here and that I would grasp what they were this time around. But the second time was just like the first.
After going through Kelley Square three or four times, I finally asked someone who lived in the city, What are the rules for Kelley Square?
Answer: There are none. You just take your opening, and go for it. Keep moving if you can. Only hesitate if you have to.
And so it goes.
I have high hopes for this new year. Health and fitness and writing and reaching goals.
And I’m not gonna lie, I am just fine with the holidays being over.
They were fun!
And I’m so over them now.
Is anyone ever left wanting more?
I don’t know.
But I get a sprint in my step as I am packing up the Christmas tree.
I was just so ready for a regular old month. I love regular old months, because there is room for surprises, progress, stillness, ideas. Writing.
The start of a brand new year.
It’s going to be a good year.
A lot is going to happen. A lot already has.
Our middle daughter got engaged!
My husband has a Fitbit. If you have one, or live with someone who has one, then you know why this is news. It goes everywhere with him. It even sleeps with us.
I learned to cross country ski. More accurately, I learned to get up after falling. But it was something new, and new is synonymous with forward motion.
I’m going to compete in the Moth Story GrandSLAM. I hear it’s going to take place in March, finally, one year after my story slam win, but I’m still waiting for confirmation. Also awaiting the theme.
The following month, I am going to speak at a convention for marriage and family therapists about my book!
I am finishing said book. This year. No excuses. Because life doesn’t go on forever, you know. It just keeps moving forward, with or without us.
I cannot say I’ve mastered Kelley Square, and in fact it still scares me. But I see it a little differently now. Instead of chaos, I see people moving forward whenever they can. Every driver is responsible for herself, but with a keen awareness of others around her.
Maybe that’s not so crazy after all.